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Kathleen
Oates Lenaghan
In the wake of the amazing recent success of local women's
teams - the 1994-95 UConn Huskies leap to mind, or, even closer
to home, Watertown High's own state championship field hockey
squads - it is sometimes easy to forget that women's sports
haue not always received the support they deserved. Paeans
to male athletes, and athletics, are timeless; but female
athletes have been long neglected. Special tribute, then,
is due to those who helped to blaze a trail for equity.
Kathy Oates was clearly one of those pioneers. Graduating
from Watertown High in 1965, she was captain of the basketball
team; a softball standout; an outstanding gymnast, skier,
and golfer; and even a member of the Riding Club. She participated
in nearly every athletic opportunity offered by the Watertown
Schools, and forced people to sit up and take notice. For
her versatility was astonishing, as was the level of pure
athletic ability and the work ethic she brought to each endeavor.
Rick Grant, a classmate of Kathy's whom she joins in the Hall,
puts it well. "Kathy was the most versatile female athlete
of the 1960s," he notes. "Gymnastics to golf, basketball
and softball, whatever the sport, Kathy's outstanding athletic
ability and competitiveness propelled her to the very highest
level of play."
Kathy is now a special education teacher in the Hosmer School
in Watertown. One comes away from a visit with her with not
just the story of the best female athlete of 1965 but the
story of an intense bond between father and daughter. Her
father, John Oates, was an outstanding athlete in his own
right (a member of WHS's class of '36) and was a lifetime
teacher in the Watertown public schools, finishing his tenure
as the longtime principal of the Cunniff School. He was an
inspiration and a guide to Kathy; she remembers that his encouragement
and support were crucial to her athletic development. Indeed,
he began taking her to the golf course when she was nine -
by the time she was twelve the pair had won the "Father-Son"
tournament at the Oakley Country Club. The next year the tournament
was renamed the "Father-Offspring" tourney - and
Kathy and John won it again!
John was inspirational in another way, too. As a child, Kathy
suffered from dyslexia - an affliction of which few had then
heard which made learning, simple reading and writing, very
difficult. Her father read to her every night, working tirelessly,
never disappointed. As Kathy writes, "Any athlete can
tell you about the many advantages that playing sports has
brought to their lives . . . sports had another meaning for
me. It was through sports that I was successful, I mattered,
and I could contribute."
Athletics fused into academics; and Kathy courageously applied
the same ethic to the classroom that she did on the field.
She prevailed, in 1969, becoming a teacher herself, helping
her students overcome the same hurdles she had once trauersed.
It is a story of grace in gravity, of a happy ending that
is all too rare. "I continued to study," she notes,
"and I continued to play sports."
Kathy's story is an inspirational one, for it highlights an
individual making the absolute most out of the situation she
faced. It is a story of family; it is a story of drive; it
is, ultimately, a story of sportsmanship in its very best
dimension. The female athletes of the 1990s owe a great debt
to Kathy Oates and the other pioneers of female scholastic
athletics; the Hall is honored this year to pay one small
installment on that obligation.
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